Entrepreneurs are a rare breed. You should be proud that you're a part of the club. Whether you're just getting started, or you've been at it for decades, you have something to offer the world and you're not afraid to make it happen.
Below is my "ritual" for managing my fears and stepping up at Ignite Spot. Notice that it forces me to get out of my chair, out of my train of miserable thought, and into a better state.
1. Turn on my favorite music (preferably Thunderstruck by AC/DC)
2. Stand strong, pull my shoulders back, head on straight and spine erect.
3. Think about all of the things that I'm grateful for. On really bad days, you have to dig, but they are there.
4. Breath deep in my diaphragm for 10 breaths.
5. Tell myself with absolute certainty that I've got this.
6. Jump up and down to get some movement going. There's power in getting blood and oxygen flowing.
This might sound hokey to you, but I don't care. It works. Oh, and guess what, I do this several times a day. The art of standing strong and getting certain makes you unstoppable. If you don't do this, what's the alternative? What are you doing right now when things go down the crapper? Do your shoulders slump? Do you breath shallow? Is the voice in your head certain of success of certain of failure?
I don't know about you, but as an entrepreneur I don't have time to wallow in misery. If you choose to do that, you'll get miserable results. Change your focus, get strong, and get certain and you'll own your day.
p.s. Since your job as the leader of your company is to keep energy and inspiration flowing in your organization, don't you think that this exercise will help refill your tank?
Now go and get it done, and don't forget that you rock.